Saturday, December 22, 2007

from the Gospel of Matthew - Father Throckmorton




Reverend Hamilton Throckmorton, right, surprised his congregation in Chagrin Falls, Ohio, when he followed up a sermon by handing out $40,000 in cash.

Pastor's Challenge Shocks Congregation
By HELEN O'NEILL,
AP
Posted: 2007-12-22 07:00:06

CHAGRIN FALLS, Ohio (Dec. 20) - The Rev. Hamilton Coe Throckmorton shivered with anticipation as he gazed at the loot - wads of $50 bills piled high beside boxes of crayons in a Sunday school classroom.

It was a balmy Friday evening in September. From several floors below faint melodies drifted up - the choir practicing for Sunday service.

Throckmorton was oblivious. For hours, perched awkwardly on child-sized wooden stools surrounded by biblical murals and children's drawings, the pastor and a handful of coconspirators concentrated on the count.

Forty-thousand dollars. Throckmorton smiled in satisfaction as he stashed the money in a safe.

That Sunday, the 52-year-old minister donned his creamy white robes, swept to the pulpit and delivered one of the most extraordinary sermons of his life.

First he read from the Gospel of Matthew.

"And unto one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one; to every man according to his ability."

Then he explained the parable of the talents, which tells of the rich master who entrusts three servants with a sum of money - "talents" - and instructs them to go forth and do good. The master lavishes praise on the two servants who double their money. But he casts into the wilderness the one so afraid to take a risk that he buries his share.

Throckmorton spends up to 20 hours working on his weekly homily, and his clear diction, contemplative message and ringing voice command the church. Gazing down from the pulpit that Sunday, Throckmorton dropped his bombshell.

Like the master, he would entrust each adult with a sum of money - in this case, $50. Church members had seven weeks to find ways to double their money, the proceeds to go toward church missions.

"Live the parable of the talents!" Throckmorton exhorted, as assistants handed out hundreds of red envelops stuffed with crisp $50 bills and stunned church members did quick mental calculations, wondering where all the money had come from. There are about 1,700 in the congregation, though not everyone attends each week.

The cash, Throckmorton explained, was loaned by several anonymous donors.

In her regular pew at the back of the church, where she has listened to sermons for 40 years, 73-year-old Barbara Gates gasped. What kind of kooky nonsense is this, she thought.

"Sheer madness," sniffed retired accountant Wayne Albers, 85, to his wife, Marnie, who hushed him as he whispered loudly. "Why can't the church just collect money the old-fashioned way?"

In a center pew, Ann Nagy's eyes moistened as she considered her ailing, beloved father, his suffering, and the song she had written to comfort him near death. She nudged her husband Scott. "Give me your $50," she whispered. Nagy knew exactly what she would do.

Throckmorton wrapped up his two morning services by saying that children would get $10. And he assured the congregation that anyone who didn't feel comfortable could simply return the money. No consignment to outer darkness for those who didn't participate.

Throckmorton is warm and engaging and approachable, as comfortable talking about the Cleveland Indians baseball team as he is discussing scripture. At the Federated Church, he is known simply as Hamilton.

But as church members spilled into the late summer sunshine that morning to ponder their skills and their souls, there were many who thought: Hamilton is really pushing us this time.

"There was definitely this tension, this pressure to live up to something," said Hal Maskiell, a 62-year-old retired Navy pilot who spent days trying to figure out how to meet the challenge.

Maskiell's passion is flying a four-seater Cessna 172 Skyhawk over the Cuyahoga County hills. He decided to use his $50 to rent air time from Portage County airport and charge $30 for half-hour rides. Church members eagerly signed up. Maskiell was thrilled to get hours of flying time, and he raised $700.

His girlfriend, Kathy Marous, 55, was far less confident. What talents do I have, she thought dejectedly. She was tempted to give the money back.

And then Marous found an old family recipe for tomato soup, one she hadn't made in 19 years. She remembered how much she had enjoyed the chopping and the cooking and the canning and the smells. With Hal's encouragement Marous dug out her pots. She bought three pecks of tomatoes. Suddenly she was chopping and cooking and canning again. At $5 a jar, she made $180.

"I just never imagined people would pay money for the things I made," Marous exclaimed.

Others felt the same way. Barbara Gates raised $450 crafting pendants from beads and sea glass - pieces she had casually made for her grandchildren over the years. Kathie Biggin created fanciful little red-nosed Rudolph pins and sold them for $2.50. Twelve-year-old Amanda Horner pooled her money with friends, stocked up at JoAnn's fabric store, and made dozens of colorful fleece baby blankets, which were purchased by church members and then donated to a local hospital.

And 87-year-old Bob Burrows rediscovered old carpentry skills and began selling wooden bird-feeders.

But it wasn't the money; everyone said so. It was something else, something far less tangible but yet so very real. For seven weeks an almost magical sense of excitement and energy and camaraderie infused the elegant red-brick church on Bell Street, spilling over into homes and hearts as the parable of the talents came alive.

In her sun-filled studio on Strawberry Lane, Shirley Culbertson felt it - a joyful sense of purpose that she had rarely experienced since her husband passed two years ago. Culbertson, 81, is a gifted painter and watercolors fill her house. But she discovered another talent during this time - knitting whimsical eight-inch stuffed dolls with button noses and floppy hats. She raised $90.

Zooming down country roads clinging to the back of a leather-clad biker, Florence Cross felt it too. For the challenge, Barry Biggin had parked his 2006 Harley Davidson Road King outside the church, offering 12-mile rides for $30. Cross was the first to sign up. Never mind that she is in her mid-80s, had never been on a bike, or that her husband of 60 years had to hoist her up.

"Oh, it was such a thrill!" said Cross, her face glowing at the memory. Her friends now call her "Harley Girl."

Martine Scheuermann lived the parable in her Elm Street kitchen, transforming it into an "applesauce factory" for several weeks. The 49-year-old human resources director would rise at 6 a.m. on Sundays in order to have warm batches ready for sampling at church services.

In his origami-filled bedroom on Bradley Street, Paul Cantlay lived the parable too. Surrounded by sheets of colored construction paper, the 9-year-old crafted paper dragons and stars and sailboats. He set up an origami stand at the end of his street, charged 50 cents to $5 depending on the piece, and raised $68.

Talents began multiplying at such a rate that the church held a bazaar after services on two consecutive Sundays for people to display - and sell - their wares.

The pretty little village on the Chagrin River falls had never seen anything quite like it. Everyone seemed to be talking about the talent challenge: over the clatter of coffee cups at Dink's restaurant, at the Fireside bookshop on the green, sipping drinks at the Gamekeeper's Taverne. Even members of other churches weighed in: Have you heard what's happening at Federated?

"Anyone can open their wallet and give cash," Kris Tesar said. "This was just an extraordinary process of exploration and discovery and of challenging ourselves. It became bigger than any one of us or than any individual talent."

Tesar, a 58-year-old retired nurse, discovered her talent in buckets of flip-flops for sale at Old Navy. She stocked up on yarn and beads and made dozens of funky, fluffy decorative footwear that were a huge hit with teens. Tesar raised $550 for the church, is still taking orders and is thinking of starting a business. Now even her children call her the "flip-flop lady."

People also got to know the "hen lady" - Gabrielle Quintin, who took to raising chickens on a whim 23 years ago when she moved into a 180-year-old house with a barn. Her "ladies," as Quintin calls her backyard flock, provide a welcome distraction from her nursing job in a cancer center. Quintin decided to put her brood to work for the church. For $10 church members could "hire-a-hen" and get three dozen fresh eggs complete with a photograph of the "lady" who laid them.

"It wasn't exactly spiritual, but I had a lot of fun," said Quintin, whose husband, Mike, made glass birdfeeders. "And it was just this great way of bringing everyone together and connecting with the church."

Kathy Wellman quilted. Mary Hobbs knit shawls and penciled portraits. Cathy Hatfield auctioned a ride in her hot-air balloon. Norma and Trent Bobbitt pooled their money with another church member to hire a harpist from the Cleveland orchestra and host an elegant evening dinner party. Folks paid $50 each to attend and the Bobbitts made over $1,200.

And physician Peter Yang took over shifts from other doctors in his partnership (he used his $50 for gas to get to the hospital) and raised $3,000.

The deadline to return the money was Sunday, Oct. 28. Nervously, some church council members suggested posting plain clothes security guards at services that day. But Throckmorton would have none of it. He insisted that the spirit of the challenge, which had already inspired so much goodwill, would carry them safely through. And it did.

Organ music filled the church as people silently filed down the aisle, dropped their proceeds into baskets, and offered testimonials about what living the parable had meant to them. Throckmorton thanked everyone for their generosity. Then he started counting.

A week later he delivered the joyful news: They had more than doubled the amount distributed.

The initial take was $38,195 over the loan, but the amount is still growing. Some people didn't make the deadline, or extended it in order to finish their projects.

The final sum will be divided equally between three charities: One-third will go to a school library in South Africa where the church is involved in an AIDS mission; one-third will go to micro-loan organizations that provide seed money for small businesses in developing countries; one-third will help the Interfaith Hospitality Network in Cleveland, specifically programs for homeless women.

Throckmorton is asked all the time if the talent challenge will become an annual event, but he is doubtful. It was a special time and a special idea, he says, and he is not sure it could be re-created or relived.

Yet in a very real sense, it lives on. Church members who never knew each other have become friends. And orders for applesauce, flip-flops and Rudolph pins are still rolling in for Christmas.

There are other, more poignant reminders. Like Ann Nagy's haunting tribute to her father, who died of brain cancer on Oct. 11.

Nagy, 44, has always been a singer with a clear lovely voice. It wasn't until her father grew ill and moved into a hospice that she started writing songs. She found solace in the music and a way of communicating that was sometimes easier than spoken words.

At hospice, patients are taught five simple truths to tell their loved ones before they die: I'll miss you. I love you. I forgive you. I'm sorry. Goodbye.

Borrowing from that theme, Nagy wrote a farewell song for her Dad. She pooled her $50 talent money with her husband's share and cut a CD to sell to church members. Ironically it was finished just an hour before her father passed, on Oct. 11. Nagy stood by his bed and sang it for him anyway.

On Nov. 11 - her father's 72nd birthday - Throckmorton preached a sermon about dying. He invited Nagy to the altar. There, accompanied by a cellist and a pianist she sang "Before You Go."

Her voice soared. The congregation wept. The parable of the talents had never seemed so alive.

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2007-12-20 19:25:53

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Robert Beach of Queen City, Texas

From Scripture…
“Why art thou cast down, O my soul? And why art thou disquieted within me? Hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, [who is] the health of my countenance, and my God. And say ye, Save us, O God of our salvation, and gather us together, and deliver us from the heathen, that we may give thanks to thy holy name, [and] glory in thy praise. And a voice came out of the throne, saying, Praise our God, all ye his servants, and ye that fear him, both small and great. This [is it] that the LORD spake, saying, I will be sanctified in them that come nigh me, and before all the people I will be glorified.”


I asked the prayer circle to pray for my Dad, Robert Beach of Queen City Texas,.. I asked because I didn’t know how or what to pray for him, for a stranger I can pray but this close to home I didn’t know how to ask God without feeling selfish, but I knew that the prayer circle was faithful. “When Jesus heard [that], he said, This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.”

How easy it is to listen to the voice of the father of lies and deny God the glory that is his due! Let me explain! Shortly after changing doctors, my Dad’s new physician who treats him for chronic pain due to years of abuse and hard work, complicated by degenerative joint disease in its advancing stage; the doctor began a thorough study of my Dads medical records and history. He noticed that my Dad’s White blood cell counts started becoming elevated in 2002 and were at present around 100% higher than normal. After a few examinations and further testing he told my parents that my Dad has advanced Leukemia. He was scheduled to meet with a Hematologist this week in order to pinpoint the exact type of Leukemia he has and get a better idea of his prognosis.

I couldn’t, and in fact I didn’t pray for my Dad until more than a week after I had asked you to pray for him. Sounds bad, I know but I know my Dad,… He would not have elected for any kind of treatment to prolong his life. The chronic pain he suffers from is such that he has not been able to sleep lying down in a bed for more than six years or to sleep more than a few (2 or 3) hours at anytime. He could only sleep sitting up in his recliner and from being in that position so much of the time for so many years his body has come to be shaped like that chair, he couldn’t straighten up anymore and walk erect, he walked only with a bad stoop bent over like a hunchback! Yet somehow I didn’t feel right accepting his impending demise and I didn’t feel right asking God only to make it (his end) as painless as possible,… selfishly I wanted him to live longer….. ’my bad! When I finally prayed for my Dad my prayer was a simple one. All I said was “Father, let Thy will be done”!

Our God is Great and greatly to be praised! Monday this week Dad had his appointment with the specialist who came back and told him that there IS NO LEUEKIA! His White blood cell count is text book normal and “she” has no explanation for why it had ever been elevated seeing as how he has no signs of infection whatsoever!

How easy it is to rob God of his praise and glory by saying to ourself, “Well, the first doctor must have been mistaken!” THAT IS NOTHING BUT A LIE WHISPERED BY THE FATHER OF LIES!

Here is the rest of the story! On Tuesday I talked with my Mom who told me that Dad was asleep right now. Then she said, “can you believe it,… two weeks ago Dad came and laid down in my bed and actually slept there all night! He’s been sleeping next to me every night since! It’s the first time that Dad has slept next to me in over six years!”

THAT my friend IS the Hand of God, Jehova Jihra, the Great Healer! Prayer Circle, thank you for your prayers! When I didn’t know how to pray YOU prayed for healing! Please join me in raising an offering of Praise and Thanksgiving to our Lord and let the devil know that he has lost yet another victory!

Your friend,
James Beach

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Maggie and Grayson...Infants need our Prayers


Dear Prayer Group,
I am asking for prayers for Maggie and Grayson. They are the niece and nephew of my friend Jill. Below is her email from December 5, and also pictures of the twins. Thank You in advance for all your beautiful prayers.
God Bless,
Mary


Sent the email of the new pics yesterday. and as of today I came home from the hospital because they had to put Maggie and Grayson back into the nicu North. So I am calling for everyone's prayers because they have been put back on ventilators with blood transfusions and our priest has come to baptize them. Please pray for my family and those beautiful babies it will be 24 to 48 hours before we know an outcome.

thanks
jill


Grayson

Hip Surgery for Joan Fuchs UPDATE


Update 12/08/2007

Update on Aunt Joan. Aunt Joan was operated on Wednesday the 29Th of November. Shelly said she found out that the bone attached to the hip bone was broken. Aunt Joan is eating and talking. They have been getting Aunt Joan up and walking her to the restroom.
I talked to Shelly yesterday and Shelly stated that they where going to get Aunt Joan in a rehab program. Hoping to finish up on Friday so that she will be able to fly home this coming week-end. I will update when I get more info.

Lisa is doing good after her mastectomy but got the news that the cancer has gone to her lymph nodes so she will have to undergo chemo therapy.

Please keep them both in your prayers.
Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose






Rick,
We need prayers for Aunt Joan. As you probable know Uncle Charlie and Aunt Joan went on their Ireland trip. Well Aunt Joan fell and they think she broke her hip and are operating today sooooooo please have the great prayer group pray for her and her family.
They don’t know if the hip is broken or if it’s the bone to the hip until the surgery. I will let you know more when Shelly calls back.

Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose

Sunday, December 2, 2007

A doll for his sister, a rose for his mommy


I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.

The boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 years old.

The Cashier said, "I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy this doll."

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ''Granny, are you sure I don't have enough money?''

The old lady replied: ''You know that you don't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.''

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look a round. She left quickly.

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll.

"It's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas. She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her."

I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry.

But he replied to me sadly. "No, Santa Claus can't bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there."

His eyes were so sad while saying this. "My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.''

My heart nearly stopped.

The little boy looked up at me and said: "I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall."

Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me "I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won't forget me. I love my mommy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister."

Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly. I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. "Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''

"OK" he said, "I hope I do have enough." I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: "Thank you God for giving me enough money!" Then he looked at me and added, "I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me! I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. My mommy loves white roses."

A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket. I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started.

I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy? Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away. I couldn't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.

Monday, November 26, 2007

THORNS...THANKSGIVING...Thanks

Rick, I just wanted to let you know that the Prayer Group's Blog is really doing some good. As you know, I came from a very rural area of Texas and that's were my mother and one sister still resides. It being such a rural area the choices of internet suppliers is limited. My Mother only has dial up. The story on the Thorns was very touching to me so I tried to share with her. She couldn't access the link so I copied and sent the story to her as body to the e-mail. It truly touched her heart of which she has shared with the church that my brother-in-law is an associate pastor and the pastor and I went to school together. They were all touched and asked me to send their deepest appreciation.
Have a great day,
Chuck
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Sandra felt as low as the heels of her shoes when she pulled open the florist shop door, against a November gust of wind. Her life had been as sweet as a spring breeze and then, in the fourth month of her second pregnancy, a "minor" automobile accident stole her joy. This was Thanksgiving week and the time she should have delivered their infant son. She grieved over their loss.

Troubles had multiplied.

Her husband's company "threatened" to transfer his job to a new location. Her sister had called to say that she could not come for her long awaited holiday visit. What's worse, Sandra's friend suggested that Sandra's grief was a God-given path to maturity that would allow her to empathize with others who suffer. "She has no idea what I'm feeling," thought Sandra with a shudder. "Thanksgiving? Thankful for what?" she wondered. "For a careless driver whose truck was hardly scratched when he rear-ended her? For an airbag that saved her life, but took her child's?"

"Good afternoon, can I help you?"

Sandra was startled by the approach of the shop clerk. "I . . . I need an arrangement," stammered Sandra.

"For Thanksgiving? I'm convinced that flowers tell stories, " she continued. "Are you looking for something that conveys 'gratitude' this Thanksgiving?"


"Not exactly!" Sandra blurted out. "In the last five months, everything that could go wrong has gone wrong."

Sandra regretted her outburst, and was surprised when the clerk said, "I have the perfect arrangement for you."

Then the bell on the door rang, and the clerk greeted the new customer, "Hi, Barbara, let me get your order." She excused herself and walked back to a small workroom, then quickly reappeared, carrying an arrangement of greenery, bows, and what appeared to be long-stemmed thorny roses. Except the ends of the rose stems were neatly snipped: there were no flowers.

"Do you want these in a box?" asked the clerk. Sandra watched - was this a joke? Who would want rose stems with no flowers! She waited for laughter, but neither woman laughed.

"Yes, please," Barbara replied with an appreciative smile. "You'd think after three years of getting the special, I wouldn't be so moved by its significance, but I can feel it right here, all over again," she said, as she gently tapped her chest.

Sandra stammered, "Ah, that lady just left with . . . uh . . . she left with no flowers!"

"That's right," said the clerk. "I cut off the flowers. That's the 'Special'. I call it the Thanksgiving Thorns Bouquet. Barbara came into the shop three years ago, feeling much as you do today," explained the clerk. "She thought she had very little to be thankful for. She had just lost her father to cancer; the family business was failing; her son had gotten into drugs; and she was facing major surgery. That same year I had lost my husband," continued the clerk. "For the first time in my life, I had to spend the holidays alone. I had no children, no husband, no family nearby, and too much debt to allow any travel."

"So what did you do?" asked Sandra.

"I learned to be thankful for thorns," answered the clerk quietly. "I've always thanked God for the good things in my life and I never questioned Him why those good things happened to me, but when the bad stuff hit, I cried out, 'Why? Why me?!' It took time for me to learn that the dark times are important to our faith! I have always enjoyed the 'flowers' of my life, but it took the thorns to show me the beauty of God's comfort! You know, the Bible says that God comforts us when we're afflicted, and from His consolation we learn to comfort others."

Sandra sucked in her breath, as she thought about what her friend had tried to tell her. "I guess the truth is I don't want comfort. I've lost a baby and I'm angry with God."

Just then someone else walked in the shop.

"Hey, Phil!" the clerk greeted the balding, rotund man.

"My wife sent me in to get our usual Thanksgiving arrangement . . twelve thorny, long-stemmed stems!" laughed Phil as the clerk handed him a tissue wrapped arrangement from the refrigerator.

"Those are for your wife?" asked Sandra incredulously. "Do you mind telling me why she wants a bouquet that looks like that?"

"Four years ago, my wife and I nearly divorced," Phil replied. "After forty years, we were in a real mess, but with the Lord's grace and guidance, we trudged through problem after problem, the Lord rescued our marriage. Jenny here (the clerk) told me she kept a vase of rose stems to remind her of what she had learned from "thorny" times. That was good enough for me. I took home some of those stems. My wife and I decided to label each one for a specific "problem" and give thanks for what that problem taught us."

As Phil paid the clerk, he said to Sandra, "I highly recommend the Special!"

"I don't know if I can be thankful for the thorns in my life" Sandra said to the clerk. "It's all too . . . fresh."

"Well," the clerk replied carefully, "my experience has shown me that the thorns make the roses more precious. We treasure God's providential care more during trouble than at any other time. Remember that it was a crown of thorns that Jesus wore so we might know His love. Don't resent the thorns."

Tears rolled down Sandra's cheeks. For the first time since the accident, she loosened her grip on her resentment.

"I'll take those twelve long-stemmed thorns, please," she managed to choke out.

"I hoped you would," said the clerk gently. "I'll have them ready in a minute."

"Thank you. What do I owe you?"

"Nothing. Nothing but a promise to allow God to heal your heart The first year's arrangement is always on me."

The clerk smiled and handed a card to Sandra. "I'll attach this card to your arrangement, but maybe you would like to read it first."

It read:

"My God, I have never thanked You for my thorns. I have thanked You a thousand times for my roses, but never once for my thorns. Teach me the glory of the cross I bear; teach me the value of my thorns. Show me that I have climbed closer to You along the path of pain. Show me that, through my tears, the colors of Your rainbow look much more brilliant."

Praise Him for the roses; thank Him for the thorns.

God Bless all of you. Be thankful for all that the Lord does for you.

"Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, and leave the rest to God."

We often try to fix problems with WD-40 and Duct tape. God did it with nails.

I'm the worlds worst at not thanking God for my thorns, only for the roses. My prayer today is to start being thankful for the thorns I know they will help me grow. I pray this for you also.

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Jeannine Caloni needs our prayers for her Surgery



Hi, writing to ask to be put on your prayer list. I've been diagnosed with Spinal Stenosis. I need a myelogram but can't seem to get rid of the panic. I need this surgery! Please pray for me!!!!!!!!!!!!! I need to get rid of the panic, have the surgery and be rid of constant pain.
Thank You
God Bless
Jeannine Caloni

Saturday, November 17, 2007

The Hand of a Teacher


The Hand of a Teacher...

Thanksgiving Day was near. The first grade teacher gave her class a fun assignment, to draw a picture of something for which they were thankful.

Most of the class might be considered economically disadvantaged, but still many would celebrate the holiday with turkey and other traditional goodies of the season. These, the teacher thought, would be the subjects of most of her student's art. And they were.

But Douglas made a different kind of picture. Douglas was a different kind of boy. He was the teacher's true child of misery, frail and unhappy. As other children played at recess, Douglas was likely to stand close by her side. One could only guess at the pain Douglas felt behind those sad eyes.

Yes, his picture was different. When asked to draw a picture of something for which he was thankful, he drew a hand. Nothing else. Just an empty hand.

His abstract image captured the imagination of his peers. Whose hand could it be? One child guessed it was the hand of a farmer, because farmers raise turkeys. Another suggested a police officer, because the police protect and care for people. Still others guessed it was the hand of God, for God feeds us. And so the discussion went, until the teacher almost forgot the young artist himself.

When the children had gone on to other assignments, she paused at Douglas' desk, bent down, and asked him whose hand it was. The little boy looked away and murmured, "It's yours, teacher."

She recalled the times she had taken his hand and walked with him here or there, as she had the other students. How often had she said, "Take my hand, Douglas, we'll go outside." Or, "Let me show you how to hold your pencil." Or, "Let's do this together." Douglas was most thankful for his teacher's hand.

Brushing aside a tear, she went on with her work.

The story speaks of more than thankfulness. It says something about teachers teaching and parents parenting and friends showing friendship, and how much it means to the Douglases of the world. They might not always say thanks. But they'll remember the hand that reaches out.

Thursday, November 15, 2007

A story of a blind girl...


There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything.

At this time her boyfriend asked her,' Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Days later her ex-boyfriend wrote a note to her saying:

'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

Now is a good time to say thanks to those you cannot see, that are there for you…always.
Happy Thanksgiving 2007. RGB PG-Host.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Cait having radical Surgery...update

update 11/14/2007

Rick this is Pat, Cait is in hospital with a collapsed lung on respirator. She had been sick for a couple of weeks; thought it was flu. She has pneumonia. She collapsed out side our house last night. Cait’s parents came got kids. Can’t think right now, sorry. Please put us on your prayer lists the kids sent u a couple of emails they send their love and so do I. Thank you for being a friend. You can reach me at shyene59@yahoo.com will be on laptop just came home to shower and get back up to hosp. always Pat


hi rick this is pat
just wanted to let u know cait is in hosp this morning they r removing the the other half of her breast and the other one also they are very optimistic that they have it all but cait is very down and in a lot of pain please put her on your prayer list i just left hospital chapel where i have been fot the last hour please pray for us could not stand to lose her thanks pat

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Nick Bockwinkel RECOVERING to OLD FORM ;-)



UPDATE: 11/10/2007

Hi Rick., Pam and I talked to Nick's wife Darlene last night and he had just got out of surgey.She said all went well and thought that she would be able to see him soon. He is at the Sunrise Hospital in Las Vegas. 702-731-8131 Family code is 0468 if someone wants to get the latest news. Thanks for all the prayers.
Dad just had his 18 year anniversary with his heart transplant and said he thinks he can get another couple of years out of it. :-) I have nicked named him Felix. :-)


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FIRST POSTING ll/8/2007
Attached Message
From: glenn0727@aol.com
To: BockWINkel@aol.com
Subject: Nick Bockwinkel
Date: Thu, 08 Nov 2007 18:04:11 -0500

Hi Rick, Cousin Nick just called and let me know that he will be having triple by-pass surgery in the morning.He ask if I would pass this information around .Please keep him in your prayers.He sounded a little nervous. He said he didn't really want to join the Bockwinkel Bad Heart Club. He is having the surgery done out in Las Vegas. Glenn

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Breast Cancer - GOOD NEWS about Deb Crump

UPDATE on Deb Crump...
In a message dated 11/8/2007 8:47:11 A.M. Central Standard Time, tracy crump writes:

Prayers do work !
The mass was not cancerous and they ended up removing it so we are so very much relieved. Thank you and all for all your concerns and prayers because it really does work !
Tracy...
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There has been a large increase in requests for prayer for people being diagnosed with various forms of cancer. Please act on the following simple request. It will help. And...right now, say a quick prayer for our friends on this Prayer Group that are dealing with cancer. Thanks...RGB...HOST

From a nurse:

I'll never forget the look in my patients eyes when I had to tell them they had to go home with the drains, new exercises and no breast.

I remember begging the Doctors to keep these women in the hospital longer, only to hear that they would, but their hands were tied by the insurance companies. So there I sat with my patient giving them the instructions they needed to take care of themselves, knowing full well they didn't grasp half of what I was saying, because the glazed, hopeless, frightened look spoke louder than the quiet 'Thank you' they muttered.

A mastectomy is when a woman's breast is removed in order to remove cancerous breast cells/tissue. If you know anyone who has had a mastectomy, you may know that there is a lot of discomfort and pain afterwards. Insurance companies are trying to make mastectomies an outpatient procedure. Let's give women the chance to recover properly in the hospital for 2 days after surgery.

Mastectomy Bill in Congress

It takes 2 seconds to do this and is very important .. please take he time and do it really quick!

Breast Cancer Hospitalization Bill - Important legislation for all wo men.

Please send this to everyone in your address book If there was ever a time when our voices and choices should be heard, this is one of those times. If you're receiving this, it's because I think you will take the 30 seconds to go to vote on this issue and send it on to others you know who will do the same.

There's a bill called the Breast Cancer Patient Protection Act which will require insurance companies to cover a minimum 48-hour hospital stay for patients undergoing a mastectomy. It's about eliminating the 'drive-through mastectomy' where women are forced to go home just a few hours after surgery, against the wishes of their doctor, still groggy from anesthesia and sometimes with drainage tubes still attached.

Lifetime Television has put this bill on their Web page with a petition drive to show your support. Last year over half the House signed on.


PLEASE!! Sign the petition by clicking on the Web site below. You need not give more than your name and zip code number.


http://www.lifetimetv.com/breastcancer/petition/signpetition.php

Good News about Kennedy Moorman~!


UPDATE: 11/08/2007

From: David Shafer
Date: Nov 6, 2007 10:04 PM
Subject: Kennedy is Home!!!

Today has been a very special day for our family. Kennedy came home after being in the hospital since she was born on May 18th!!! When she came home this afternoon she weighed in at 7 lbs. and 13 ounces. What a miracle she is!!!

Thanks to all of your for all of your support, prayers (very important!!!) and just all of your good thoughts. We really appreciate all of this!

Please pass this news onto anyone else that has offered prayers and support for Kennedy as we know that there are many people around the world that have given her support.


Thanks,

Dave and Karen
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First Entry: 10/04/2007

Hi,

Please keep up with your prayers for Kennedy. She is working great on the lower part of her body. The last surgery went really well and she is pooping and doing a great job of it. Now, she is having difficulty breathing and is back on the vent. The lungs are "immature" and she is having trouble. They have started some new medicine yesterday and will be doing some more today. She really responded well to the stuff on Wed., so I hope that today will continue. Jill and Bryan are feeling the effects of this NICU roller coaster and it is really so hard for them. Please keep all of them in your prayers and hope that this lung issue will get better soon. Thanks for all of your good thoughts and support.

Karen



Would you add Kennedy Moorman to your prayer list? That is Karen and Dave Shafer's new grandbaby - Jill's daughter. She was born at only 22 weeks weighing in at 1.3 lbs. She is having her good days and bad. I said that you hosted a prayer group list by email and she said she would like you to add Kennedy's name. Is that all I need to do? Thanks in advance:)

love,
Big Sis

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Please Pray for Robert Beach

From: James Beach
Sent: Fri, 2 Nov 2007 4:01 pm
Subject: Prayer list please


Hi Boc,

I just found out that my Dad, (Robert E. Beach of Queen City, Texas) has been diagnosed with Leukemia, specific type has not yet been confirmed but he is to see a Hemotolgist soon. He will turn 70 in two more days, (November 4th). I thank you all for your Prayers.

Also, a favor perhaps? it would completely blow him away if he got a ton of emails or e-cards on his birthday, especially if those cards told him that people from all over were praying for him,... just a thought! He can be emailed c/o: ebtx75572@aol.com

Thanks Boc!
James

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Aunt Faye's Cancer UPDATE


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Update: 10/31/2007


Hi Rick,
Aunt Faye came through with flying colors. The polyp was benign. Uncle Ron said thank you for all the prayers

Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose

Mary Palmero

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Update: 10/29/2007


Good morning Rick,

Here are the updates on Aunt Faye.

Aunt Faye is going to have a hysterectomy on Wednesday 10/31/2007. Her uterus has dropped and they also found a polyp which is some concern.

Lisa's first operation did not get all the cancer. So on 11/14/2007 Lisa is going to have a mastectomy. Lisa has decided to go with an implant so the Plastic Surgeon needs to be available also.

Please keep both of them in your prayers.

Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose


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UPDATE: 9/12/2007


On the 5th Uncle Ron called Aunt Joan to say all went well with Aunt Faye. Uncle Ron said that Aunt Faye was doing well and was coming home that day which was Friday the 7th.

Well this morning as I was getting ready for work Aunt Faye called and said she does not have to do radiation or chemo but will be taking the pills. Also this Monday Aunt Faye walked a mile and a half at the health club. And on Tuesday 2 miles this was done in increments of a few laps at a time. Isn’t that great!!

Aunt Faye said they will be here for Brian’s wedding in October.

Aunt Faye said “tell the prayer group thank you”. The prayers where greatly appreciated.

Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose



Hi Rick,
Got a call from Aunt Faye today with an update.
Surgery for Aunt Faye will be on September the 5Th. They will be doing a bilateral mastectomy. They feel that they have caught it in the beginning stages. Her right breast is a stage 1 and the left a stage 0. They will be injecting dye in the lymph nodes. Aunt Faye will not have to do chemo or radiation but will be on pills for 2 years.
Needless to say Aunt Faye is in need of a lot of prayers. So lets engage the fantastic Prayer Group on this one.


Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose

Monday, October 8, 2007

How to be SAFE and SOUND of mind


How to stay safe in the world today.

1. Avoid riding in automobiles because they are responsible for 20% of all fatal accidents.

2. Do not stay home because 17% of all accidents occur in the home.

3. Avoid walking on streets or sidewalks because 14% of all accidents occur to pedestrians.

4. Avoid traveling by air, rail, or water because 16% of all accidents involve these forms of transportation.

5. Of the remaining 33%, 32% of all deaths occur in Hospitals.


So, ... above all else, avoid hospitals. BUT , ... You will be pleased to learn that only .001% of all deaths occur in worship services in church, and these are usually related to previous physical disorders. Therefore, logic tells us that the safest place for you to be at any given point in time is at church!

....... And....Bible study is safe too. The percentage of deaths during Bible study is even less.

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Pam Bockwinkel heart surgery planned

UPDATE: Pam's surgery completed in five hours...success. THANKS for the prayers...

This message received by TEXTING from Glenn, the young-at-the-time looking guy on the left in the picture below...


FYI Pam, the one on the right below the sky pilot, will be going in the hospital on Weds. 3.2007 for Heart Surgery. She has had a lot of problems with her medicine keeping the heart in rhythm. This procedure should help. It's called Radiofrequency Catheter Ablation. It will take about six hours to perform this procedure. If all works well she will not have to take as many meds as she does now. Please keep her in your prayers. GJB

Dr Shara will be doing the surgery on Pam

http://www.aurorahealthcare.org/services/cardiac/today/3d-imaging/index.asp


PS Dad is doing a lot better also. He is back driving again. Glenn :-)

Thanks

Saturday, September 29, 2007

A Room for a special one, for a night

Our house was directly across the street from the clinic entrance of Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore .. We lived downstairs and rented the upstairs rooms to out-patients at the Clinic.

One summer evening as I was fixing supper, there was a knock at the door I opened it to see a truly awful looking man. "Why, he's hardly taller than my eight-year-old," I thought as I stared at the stooped, shriveled body.

But the appalling thing was his face, lopsided from swelling, red and raw. Yet his voice was pleasant as he said, "Good evening. I've to see if you've a room for just one night. I came for a treatment this morning from the eastern shore, and there's no bus 'till morning."

He told me he'd been hunting for a room since noon but with no success. No one seemed to have a room. "I guess it's my face. I know it looks terrible, but my doctor says with a few more treatments..."

For a moment I hesitated, but his next words convinced me: "I could sleep in this rocking chair on the porch. My bus leaves early in the morning." I told him we would find him a bed, but to rest on the porch. I went inside and finished getting supper. When we were ready, I asked the old man if he would join us. "No thank you. I have plenty" And he held up a brown paper bag.

When I had finished the dishes, I went out on the porch to talk with him a few minutes. It didn't take a long time to see that this old man had an over sized heart crowded into that tiny body. He told me he fished for a living to support his daughter, her five children and her husband, who was hopelessly crippled from a back injury.

He didn't tell it by way of complaint; in fact, every other sentence was prefaced with thanks to God for a blessing. He was grateful that no pain accompanied his disease, which was apparently a form of skin cancer. He thanked God for giving him the strength to keep going.

At bedtime, we put a camp cot in the children's room for him. When I got up in the morning, the bed linens were neatly folded, and the little man was out on the porch.

He refused breakfast, but just before he left for his bus, haltingly, as if asking a great favor, he said, Could I please come back and stay the next time I have a treatment? I won't put you out a bit. I can sleep fine in a chair." He paused a moment and then added, "Your children made me feel at home. Grownups are bothered by my face, but children don't seem to mind." I told him he was welcome to come again.

And on his next trip he arrived a little after seven in the morning. As a gift, he brought a big fish and a quart of the largest oysters I had ever seen. He said he had shucked them that morning before he left so that they'd be nice and fresh. I knew his bus left at 4 a.m. , and I wondered what time he had to get up in order to do this for us.

In the years he came to stay overnight with us there was never a time that he did not bring us fish or oysters or vegetables from his garden.

Other times we received packages in the mail, always by special delivery; fish and oysters packed in a box of fresh young spinach or kale, every leaf carefully washed. Knowing that he must walk three miles to mail these and knowing how little money he had made the gifts doubly precious.

When I received these little remembrances, I often thought of a comment our next-door neighbor made after he left that first morning. "Did you keep that awful looking man last night? I turned him away! You can lose roomers by putting up such people!"

Maybe we did lose roomers once or twice But, oh, if only they could have known him, perhaps their illness would have been easier to bear. I know our family always will be grateful to have known him; from him we learned what it was to accept the bad without complaint and the good with gratitude to God.

Recently I was visiting a friend who has a greenhouse. As she showed me her flowers, we came to the most beautiful one of all, a golden chrysanthemum, bursting with blooms. But to my great surprise, it was growing in an old dented, rusty bucket. I thought to myself, "If this were my plant, I'd put it in the loveliest container I had!"

My friend changed my mind. "I ran short of pots," she explained, "and knowing how beautiful this one would be, I thought it wouldn't mind starting out in this old pail. It's just for a little while, till I can put it out in the garden."

She must have wondered why I laughed so delightedly, but I was imagining just such a scene in heaven. There's an especially beautiful one," God might have said when he came to the soul of the sweet old fisherman. "He won't mind starting in this small body."

All this happened long ago -- and now, in God's garden, how tall this lovely soul must stand.

The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."

Friends are very special. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear and they share a word of praise. Show your friends how much you care.

The New Priest - Confessional Training

The new priest, born and raised in Texas, is nervous about hearing confessions, so he asks the older priest to sit in on his sessions.

The new priest hears a couple of confessions, then the old priest asks him to step out of the confessional for a few suggestions.

The old priest suggests, "Cross your arms over your chest, and rub your chin with one hand and try saying things like 'yes, I see,' and 'yes, go on,' and 'I understand.'" The new priest crosses his arms, rubs his chin with one hand and repeats all the suggested remarks to the old priest.

The old priest says , ..."Now, don't you think that's a little better than slapping your knee and saying, "No crap... what happened next?"

Friday, September 28, 2007

Dirt Bike 1, Quirin 0


In a message dated 9/24/2007 3:39:41 P.M. Central Daylight Time, mquirin@weldtechservices.com writes:
Bock,

Back at work now and just catching up on e-mails - thought I’d pass this along. Was out riding my new dirt bike in Tennessee over Labor Day (yeah, I know I’m getting too old for that stuff) and had a pretty good crash and burn at 70mph. Hit the dirt head first and ended up with a “Hangman’s fracture” of my neck according to the neurosurgeon – one of my vertebrae broken completely in half. Now I have this cell phone tower on my head. Everything works though, and I’ll get out of this thing in 2-3 months. The really good news is my dirt bike sustained no serious injuries and I’ll be able to ride it again.

LePori stopped by this weekend and we downed a few Michs to help ease the pain. He’s doing well and living in Jacksonville.

Life is good,
Mark

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

For my Cousin Lisa


In a message dated 9/25/2007 4:38:41 P.M. Central Daylight Time, mrosepalmero@yahoo.com writes:
Hi Rick,

I was talking to Uncle Ron and Aunt Faye over the week-end. Aunt Faye is doing great. But they told me that Lisa (daughter) was diagnosed with breast cancer and will be operated on Wednesday. It will not be a full mastectomy. So please again ask the prayer group to put their hands together for Lisa. She is also having a D and C at the same time. I will give you an update as soon as possible.

Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Sarah Rogers - Out of Coma - Out of Insurance!

Dear friends,

I'm forwarding this e-mail as every little bit helps. Sarah Rogers, one of the girls in our local chapter of the Society of Women Engineers got into a bad accident and needs a lot of help. Please say a prayer for her and her family and read the e-mail below for the raffle details.

Thanks to all,
Nevena

----- Original Message -----
From: Secretary Central Florida SWE
Subject: SWE - Raffle for Sarah Rogers
As you may already know, Sarah Rogers, president of the UCF section of SWE, was in a tragic car accident on May 8, 2007. Her boyfriend was killed and Sarah was in a coma for over a week. She was moved to Indiana for critical care therapy. Her father had to move her out of that facility due to the cost and insurance no longer covering any of her care. Sarah still needs a great deal of medical care. Currently, her father is caring for her at home and taking her to therapy appointments.

Her mother is putting on a raffle to raise money for the medical expenses. Disney has donated a great package to this effort. Tickets are 3/$25 or 1/$10. More detailed information as well as a link to pay through paypal can be found by visiting the following site:

http://www.swe.org/centralflorida/2007_SarahRogersfund.html

Please do anything you can to help. Sarah is an amazing girl and her family really needs our help.

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

CORRECTION: Ryan Mahaffey's Dad's Funeral


I apologize, but I gave you all the wrong time for the funeral on Friday. It is at 10:00, instead of 10:30. I am sending you a copy of the obituary as well, since it will only be in the Daytona paper. It's a nice tribute. Again, thank you all so much for your support.


Leo Hubert Mahaffey "Hub"
Funeral services for Leo Hubert Mahaffey 82, of Bay Ridge Lane, Port Orange, passed Monday, Sept. 17, 2007 at Daytona Beach Health and Rehab, will be Friday Sept. 21, 2007 at 10:00 AM at Volusia Memorial Funeral Home Chapel, 4815 Clyde Morris Blvd, Port Orange, FL, with Minister Steve Johnson officiating, with burial following at Volusia Memorial Park 550 N. Nova Rd. Ormond Beach, FL, the family will receive friends on (today) Thursday, Sept. 20, 2007 from 5PM until 7PM.
Leo was born May 13, 1924 in Xenia, Ohio, known by his friends and family as Hub, he graduated from Xenia Central High School in 1943 where he was football captain of the Xenia Buccaneers, he earned a scholarship to the University of Miami of Ohio, but was called to serve his country immediately after graduating. He received an Honorable discharge from the United States Army in 1946; he was stationed in the Philippines, and was a PT Boat, also known as the Knights of the Sea, metal smith during WWII. He was a member of the PT Boat Preservation Association. Hub retired to Florida in 1985 after 30 years of service with Conrail as a Brakeman. He was a member and usher of First United Methodist Church of Port Orange and he enjoyed golfing.
Hub was preceded in death by his parents Leo and Mesie Mahaffey, and his brother Dean Mahaffey.

Hub is survived by his wife of 37 years, Rhonda Knight Mahaffey, of Port Orange, FL, and their two sons; Ryan, of Orlando, FL and Brock of Port Orange, FL, and their three grandchildren; Vanessa, Madison and Aidan. He is also survived by three sons from a previous marriage, Tim of Huber Heights OH, Mike of Cedarville OH, and Pat of Xenia, OH, and seven grandchildren, Jamie, Katie, Kelli, and Kasey, and two great-grandchildren, Jason and Justin.

Memorial Donations: WWII PT Boat Preservation
PT Boats Inc.
P.O. Box 3870
Germantown, TN 38183
Arrangements are under the care and trust of:
Volusia Memorial Funeral Home
4815 Clyde Morris Blvd
Port Orange, FL 32129




The following email was forwarded to me by Amelia Z...thanks. I am asking the Prayer Group and the "ASI graduates" group to say a prayer for Ryan and his family.




By the way that ASI Graduates group name was inspired by Novi.


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MELANIE writes...
I just wanted to update you all. Ryan's dad passed at 8:30 this morning. He went peacefully, just as he wanted. Many have asked, so here are the arrangements. There will be an announcement in the News Journal as well. The viewing will be on Thursday from 5-7 at Volusia Memorial in Port Orange. As of right now, the funeral will be there as well, on Friday morning at 10:30.

4815 Clyde Morris BoulevardPort Orange, FL 32129
(386) 673-5373
The internment will be at Volusia Memorial in Ormond Beach.
548 North Nova RoadOrmond Beach, FL 32174
Rhonda, Ryan and Brock are doing as well as can be expected. As you know, Hub hasn't been himself for the last 2 years, and the last year has been rather difficult for everyone. Rhonda in particular. Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. We appreciate them. Our family is truly blessed to have you in our lives. I know that they are comforted by your love, support and willingness to step forward in any way. Both Ryan and Rhonda really want to have the kids with us for everything, so thanks for the many offers to care for the babies. Madison has always managed to put a big grin on her Papa's face when no one else could. They had a special bond. We know he would want her there. A couple people asked for Ryan's mom's address, so here is that as well.

Please forgive me for the impersonal group email.

Rhonda Mahaffey
810 Bay Ridge Lane
Port Orange, FL 32127

Thanks again,

Melanie

UPDATE Dale Malone HEART Health Prayers Needed

From Reagan M.
Thank you for remembering Dale in your prayers. The procedure was a great success. Dales son, James Harrell Malone, called this evening to put the final touches on the success and optimism for Dale. Briefly stated, the surgeon found the vein to be almost 100% blocked and after finding the right size "roto-rooter" to run up the vein, the surgeon said the surrounding vessels began to fill with blood. He was optimistic that Dale would surely feel better and have more energy. James was happy that Dale went to another surgeon for a second opinion and for acting on the second opinion. His GP and other Heart Surgeon had advised against the procedure because of Dales critical condition.

Never count the God factor out. Thanks again for your prayers.



Please keep my older brother, Dale, in mind for prayer on 9/12 as per the following. Dale's condition requires surgery but his health is so poor they will not operate on him. His new heart surgeon has advised him there is a smaller size balloon available now that could give him some relief and he recommended Dale to try this procedure. Dale almost destroyed his knee 20+ some years ago on a motorcycle and that is also giving him a lot of misery. Please keep him on your prayer list.

Thanks,
Reagan

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Could net get your cell phone earlier today. Have scheduled angioplasty for me at Harris Hospital downtown Ft. Worth Wednesday 9/12/07. Have to arrive at hospital 1:30 pm and procedure is scheduled for 4:00 pm. I was told to expect to spend one night at the hospital.

Have been struggling with a lot of pain in my motorcycle knee for the last two days and am not looking at email very much due to the pain of sitting in a chair.

Salutations, or Salud; whatever churns the butter. Dale

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Jim...Carpenter...Macek Heart ByPass!!!!


Folks...Jim is a friend my family met when we first moved to Kansas. His daughter was tutored by my daughter Shannon. He has done ALL of the home improvements on our little house above the prairie in Shawnee. He is a hunter supreme. He shares his special game preparations. He is a great guy...even though he is a Jayhawk! Please read on...and while you do...say a prayer for a great, young guy who just got remarried one month ago! Thanks...Bock.


In a message dated 9/5/2007 2:42:02 P.M. Central Daylight Time, erbgarden@everestkc.net writes:
I just got a call from Jean, Jim’s sister. He asked her to call because he can’t be here to tile this week-he’s having heart by-pass surgery today! He’s only 42-the family is shocked, since he’s probably the fittest of the bunch. He didn’t see this coming. He’d been tired, and his normal Dr. didn’t think it was anything worth investigating, other than thinking maybe acid reflux was causing his sore throat. Jim wasn’t satisfied, so on the recommendation of a friend, he saw a Dr. at KU Med. Center. This Dr. found classic symptoms of heart disease, and found 3 blockages, 90-95% blockage is what Jean said. So, the surgery was scheduled right away.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Progress Report for Gabe


Ellen DeMik sent this to Michele who sent it to us to send to you.
Please pass along this update on little GABE and ask for continued prayers.
Thanks
Uncle George


UPDATE
"jdemik@juno.com" wrote:
FYI - Gabe is still in a lot of pain, part of the issue is high pressure. He is going in to the hospital Tuesday for a minimum of a week for a lumbar drain trial. If it is successful (the doctors are optimistic), the next step would be a shunt.--Prayer Request - Gabriel Hartman

INTRO:

Thank you so much for being willing to add Gabe to your prayer chains. I did not receive an update today. Love, Ellie


Gabe was diagnosed in 2003 with Metopic craniosynostosis (same condition as Andrew DeMik on Rick's prayer chain in 2004). He has had 2 surgeries for craniosynostosis (5/03 & 2/05) to open up and reconstruct his skull. In 2/07 Gabe was diagnosed with Chiari malformation. Chairi is explained on one website as "It is characterized by abnormalities in the area where the brain and spinal cord meet that cause part of the cerebellum to protrude through the bottom of the skull (foramen magnum) into the spinal canal. This interferes with the flow of cerebral spinal fluid to and from the brain, leading to accumulation of cerebral spinal fluid in the empty spaces of the spine and brain." It is often extremely painful.


Gabe had surgery for Chairi on June 27th. Since then, his extreme, relentless pain has returned. He was taken back to the hospital when the pain could no longer be tolerated and vomitting began. In his mother's words, "We have a diagnosis. Gabe has chemical meningitis and a Cerebral Spinal Fluid leak. He will be taking 15 days of high dose steriods. That will take us to August 3rd. If his symptoms come back or worsens during that time we will schedule surgery to fix the leak and (another issue) the week of August 6th." Please pray for Gabe and his family. He is only 5 1/2 years old, he has a twin and he has 2 younger siblings. All four children are having headaches. The third child has been diagnosed with Chiari. The youngest one will probably be evaluated once Gabe's condition improves.

Aunt Faye's Cancer

Hi Rick,
Got a call from Aunt Faye today with an update.
Surgery for Aunt Faye will be on September the 5Th. They will be doing a bilateral mastectomy. They feel that they have caught it in the beginning stages. Her right breast is a stage 1 and the left a stage 0. They will be injecting dye in the lymph nodes. Aunt Faye will not have to do chemo or radiation but will be on pills for 2 years.
Needless to say Aunt Faye is in need of a lot of prayers. So lets engage the fantastic Prayer Group on this one.


Love Ya,
Aunt Mary Rose

Sunday, August 26, 2007

92 year old preacher


While watching a little TV on Sunday instead of going to church, I watched a Church in Atlanta honoring one of its senior pastors who had been retired many years. He was 92 at that time and I wondered why the Church even bothered to ask the old gentleman to preach at that age.

After a warm welcome, introduction of this speaker, and as the applause quieted down he rose from his high back chair and walked slowly, with great effort and a sliding gate to the podium. Without a note or written paper of any kind, he placed both hands on the pulpit to steady himself and then quietly and slowly he began to
speak....

"When I was asked to come here today and talk to you, your pastor asked me to tell you what was the greatest lesson ever learned in my 50 odd years of preaching. I thought about it for a few days and boiled it down to just one thing that made the most difference in my life and sustained me through all my trials. The one thing that I could always rely on when tears and heart break and pain and fear and sorrow paralyzed me... the only thing that would comfort was this verse.........

"Jesus loves me this I know.
For the Bible tells me so.
Little ones to Him belong,
we are weak but He is strong.....
Yes, Jesus loves me...
The Bible tells me so."

When he finished, the church was quiet. You actually could hear his foot steps as he shuffled back to his chair. I don't believe I will ever forget it.

A pastor once stated, "I always noticed that it was the adults who chose the children's hymn 'Jesus Loves Me' (for the children of course) during a hymn sing, and it was the adults who sang the loudest because I could see they knew it the best."

"Senior version of Jesus Loves Me"

Here is a new version just for us who have white hair or no hair at all. For us over middle age (or even those almost there) and all you others, check out this newest version of Jesus Loves Me.

JESUS LOVES ME

Jesus loves me, this I know,
Though my hair is white as snow
Though my sight is growing dim,
Still He bids me trust in Him.

(CHORUS)
YES, JESUS LOVES ME... YES, JESUS LOVES ME..
YES, JESUS LOVES ME FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO.

Though my steps are oh, so slow,
With my hand in His I'll go
On through life, let come what may,
He'll be there to lead the way.

(CHORUS)

When the nights are dark and long,
In my heart He puts a song.
Telling me in words so clear,
"Have no fear, for I am near."

(CHORUS)
When my work on earth is done,
And life's victories have been won.
He will take me home above,
Then I'll understand His love.

(CHORUS)

I love Jesus, does He know?
Have I ever told Him so?
Jesus loves to hear me say,
That I love Him every day.

(CHORUS)

Monday, July 2, 2007

What is on the Other Side?

For Amelia's Dad...and her family, we pray for his passing this day.

Bock,

Can we add my Dad – he passed this morning – At home in his bed, in his sleep with his dog by his side. Just how he wanted to go.

Thanks,

Amelia

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A sick man turned to his doctor, as he was preparing to leave the examination room and said, "Doctor, I am afraid to die. Tell me what lies on the other side."

Very quietly, the doctor said, "I don't know."

"You don't know? You, a Christian man, do not know what is on the other side?"

The doctor was holding the handle of the door; on the other side came a sound of scratching and whining, and as he opened the door, a dog sprang into the room and leaped on him with an eager show of gladness. Turning to the patient, the doctor said, "Did you notice my dog? He's never been in this room before. He didn't know what was inside. He knew nothing except that his master was here, and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear. I know little of what is on the other side of death, but I do know one thing...I know my Master is there and that is enough."

Sunday, July 1, 2007

Good News about Pete...THANKS

From: Peter M. Lynch III
To: lyncha@email.chop.edu
Sent: Friday, June 29, 2007 7:00 PM
Subject: FINALL:GOOD NEWS!!
Good afternoon to all the family, friends, and supporters. I just got back from seeing the Oncologist. This, after a week of tests, MRIs, PET Scans, and visits to the surgeon and dermatologist. He told me that everything looked good and that they could find no sign of the melanoma lurking anywhere. We also heard today, that Nancy's mom is doing quite well and they are cutiing back, significantly, on her chemo. It has been a long and difficult year in dealing with this. I am pleased with the outcome since I chose the "nuclear option", or most aggressive treatment available. My brain is still fuzzy over events while I was in treatment, and I missed some collasal snowstorms this past Winter. I shall be in follow up for quite some time. Now, my next challenge is to get all the paperwork and test results to the FAA so that I can try to get my Medical back and return to flying, which I have truly missed. Once again, I would like to thank all of you for your prayers and support throughout this ordeal. I hope that you all have a nice 4th of July weekend. I know that we shall be celebrating here. Pete

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

I LOVE THIS MAN


No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE.

No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.

And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE

Matthew 10:32 'Whoever acknowledges Me before men, I will acknowledge him before My Father in heaven. But whoever disowns Me before men, I will disown him before My Father in heaven.

Peggy Webber...Memphis, MO

From Renee "Ross" Vetter....
I wanted to tell you about my friend Peggy Webber. I think you will remember her - Dick Webber's wife. He was a circuit judge when you knew him. Now he is a Federal judge in St.Louis. Peggy is 60 and just retired from teaching last year. She had breast cancer a couple years ago and now it is back and in her spine and other bones. She is really a fighter and never gives up. She has so much faith and feels with God's help she will beat this. She just did the Komen walk in STL and is planning to do the triathlon in Denver for the same cause.

Her web site link is below...if you have time to read a little.

Her daughters were very small when you visited Memphis. Erin is now an attorney in Denver and Nicki has her doctorate in sport's psychology. She was quite the athlete at Mizzou and this year was invited to speak at the year end Sport's banquet. She also gave the address at graduation at Memphis High School this year. Dick's folks have passed away so Dick and Peggy get to Memphis some to his folks' farm.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/peggywebber

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Sarah Gracely's MS battle

You all have been praying for Sarah Gracely, my friend Dawn's 15 yr old daughter who was dx with MS....here's her latest update. KEEP PRAYING!!!

dbgracely@aol.com <dbgracely@aol.com>
Hi Sylvia!
Guess what! We took Sarah down to Philly yesterday for a checkup and she did great! The dr. was very happy. Her balance is back to normal and her one eye isn't delayed. It was such a great report and a great feeling! Of course she had her two friends with her in the room and she asked about sharing a soda (which she believes causes her to get sick and she turned into such a germaphobic) and he told her to stop being paranoid and share so long as they are not sick at the time. Her friends were laughing!

She doesn't have to go back until late November and we will have an MRI done at that time.

Thanks for all of your help and support!How's Meghan doing?Love,Dawn

Cathy Comly

Margaret Luette <MLuette@bcidaho.com>
good morning Syl,
i have a couple of prayer requests this morning. My dear friend Cathy Comly emailed me this morning to ask if we would all pray for her father in law . He just found out that he has metastic cancer in the lungs, lymph nodes and liver. Also, Cathy's daughter Ashley, the marine, just left for Iraq this morning to finish her tour. Please keep her, her unit, and her family in your prayers. Thanks, Marge

Mario Spagnolette

Karen S. Poshefko <poshefko@ptd.net>
Hi All,

My dad's surgery went very well. His neurosurgeon, Dr. Lee, is reported to be the best in the Valley and is also an avid fly fisherman! All of this gave my dad a lot of confidence going into the procedure. Dr. Lee said they were monitoring my dad's spinal functions during the procedure and that the electrical impulses have returned to his hands. Yeay! Dr. Lee said my dad will be back fly fishing in a month.

My dad does have some difficult days ahead. We had a little setback the night before the surgery, as he suffered hallucinations from one, or a combination of drugs. This is not surprising, as he has been on TONS of pain killers and muscle relaxers over the past week to relieve his intense pain. They added a steroid a couple of days ago to relieve the inflamation around his spinal cord. He also had Ambien to help him sleep. His glucose level is up due to the steroids, which he is very concerned about. My dad has been a "pre-diabetic" for about 25 years and has been controlling his condition with a strict diet. Up to this time, he's been on no medication and doesn't even like to take aspirin. This is quite amazing for a 78-year-old! We keep telling him all these meds are temporary, but necessary.

Dr. Lee expects my dad will go to Good Shephard for a few days of rehab. We'll see how things go over the next couple of days.

THANKS to all of you for your prayers, and offers of food and rides to hospital. We really appreciate it!!

I'll be in touch.
Love,
Karen

Caitlyn "CAT" Breast Cancer SURVIVOR

Dear PGPG:

Here's a the brief...Caitlyn has just had surgery to remove a lump (and half her breast). She has completed chemo and is a survivor. However, as Peg "S" can relate, her mom survived breast cancer, had it in remission for over 20 years...and it came back.

That said...reality is this...prayer, and faith brings results. Please pray for Caitlyn...the Cat.

Monday, June 25, 2007

Cancer Strikes DEAR Friend Peg "S"

Dear PGPG,

My sister, Sherry, has just learned that her longtime, great, close friend, Peg "S" has been diagnosed with Stage III lung cancer.

Peg has a great family. She has a 19 year-old daughter in University (i.e. Ole Miss...you folks from Penn State don't be holding that against her ;-)

Peg has given her life to working for charity...that has been her "job".

Just this April, Peg and her twin sister, and elder sister lost their mom to cancer. They each stayed each night this year with her mom in hospice so her mom would not be alone when the time came.

Peg has never smoked.

She had a little pain in December...figured it was from a recent automobile accident and thought nothing of it. Now, months later she learns this challenge she must face.

She and her family need our prayers.

So how about it...send me a prayer for Peg...but first say one Hail to our Mother Mary for all of us that we have the strength to share and lift Peg up.

with Love
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PGPG

Thursday, June 14, 2007

To Forgive?


One day a while back, a man, his heart heavy with grief, was walking in the woods. As he thought about his life this day, he knew many things were not right. He thought about those who had lied about him back when he had a job. His thoughts turned to those who had stolen his things and cheated him. He remembered family that had passed on. His mind turned to the illness he had that no one could cure. His very soul was filled with anger, resentment and frustration.

Standing there this day, searching for answers he could not find, knowing all else had failed him, he knelt at the base of an old oak tree to seek the One he knew would always be there. And with tears in his eyes, he prayed:

"Lord- You have done wonderful things for me in this life. You have told me to do many things for you, and I happily obeyed. Today, you have told me to forgive. I am sad, Lord, because I cannot. I don't know how. It is not fair Lord. I didn't deserve these wrongs that were done against me and I shouldn't have to forgive. As perfect as Your way is Lord, this one thing I cannot do, for I don't know how to
forgive. My anger is so deep Lord, I fear I may not hear You, but I pray that You teach me to do this one thing I cannot do - Teach me To Forgive."

As he knelt there in the quiet shade of that old oak tree, he felt something fall onto his shoulder. He opened his eyes. Out of the corner of one eye, he saw something red on his shirt. He could not turn to see what it was because where the oak tree
had been was a large square piece of wood in the ground. He raised his head and saw two feet held to the wood with a large spike through them.

He raised his head more, and tears came to his eyes as he saw Jesus hanging on a cross. He saw spikes in His hands, a gash in His side, a torn and battered body, deep thorns sunk into His head. Finally he saw the suffering and pain on His precious face. As their eyes met, the man's tears turned to sobbing, and Jesus began to speak.

"Have you ever told a lie?" He asked?

The man answered - "yes, Lord."

"Have you ever been given too much change and kept it?"

The man answered - “yes. Lord." And the man sobbed more and more.

"Have you ever taken something from work that wasn't yours?" Jesus asked?

And the man answered - "yes, Lord."

"Have you ever sworn, using my Father's name in vain? "

The man, crying now, answered - "yes, Lord."

As Jesus asked many more times, "Have you ever"?

The man's crying became uncontrollable, for he could only answer - "yes, Lord."

Then Jesus turned His head from one side to the other, and the man felt something fall on his other shoulder. He looked and saw that it was the blood of Jesus. When he looked back up, his eyes met those of Jesus, and there was a look of love the man had never seen or known before.

Jesus said, "I didn't deserve this either, but I forgive you."

Thursday, May 17, 2007

CELL PHONE vs. BIBLE


I wonder what would happen if we treated our Bible like we treat
our cell phone?
What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we flipped through it several times a day?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to our kids as gifts?
What if we used it when we traveled?
What if we used it in case of emergency?

This is something to make you go....hmm...where IS my Bible

Oh, and one more thing. Unlike our cell phone, we don't have to worry about our
Bible being disconnected because Jesus already paid the bill. And no dropped calls!

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Another Favorite Prayer of Grandma's

PRAYER TO THE HOLY SPIRIT

COME, Holy Spirit.
Replace the tension within me with a
holy relaxation.
Replace the turbulence within me with
a sacred calm.
Replace the anxiety within me with a
quiet confidence.
Replace the fear within me with a
strong faith.
Replace the bitterness within me with
the sweetness of grace.
Replace the coldness within me with
a loving warmth.
Replace the night within me with
Your day.
Replace the winter within me with
Your spring.
Straighten my crookedness,
Fill my emptiness,
Dull the edge of my pride.
Sharpen the edge of my humility,
Light the fires of my love.
Quench the flames of my lust.
Let me see myself as You see me,
That I may see You as You have
promised me,
And be healed according to Your word.

Fr. Tom Duff. OSM

Sunday, May 6, 2007

Crabby Old Man


CRABBY OLD MAN

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near
Tampa, Florida, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they
found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that
copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital. One
nurse took her copy to Missouri . The old man's sole bequest to posterity
has since appeared in the edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis
Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made
based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now
the author of this "anonymous" poem winging across the Internet.

Crabby Old Man

What do you see nurses? What do you see?
What are you thinking.... ..when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man, ....not very wise,
Uncertain of habit ......with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food.......and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice....."I do wish you'd try!"
Who seems not to notice .the things that you do.
And forever is losing ............ .. a sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not......... lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding ....... the long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse......you' re not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am ....... as I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, ......as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of ten....with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters .who love one another

A young boy of Sixteen ..........with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now. ..........a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty ........my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows........ that I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now ......... I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide ........ and a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty ....... my young now grown fast,
Bound to each other ......... with ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons ........have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me......to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, ........... babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . my loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me .......... my wife is now dead.
I look at the future ........... .I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing ........young of their own.
And I think of the years...... and the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man......... and nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age .......look like a fool
The body, it crumbles.... ......grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone...... where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass ...... a young guy still dwells,
And now and again .........my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys........ ..... I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living...... .... ...life over again.

I think of the years all too few......gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact........ that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people ...........open and see.
Not a crabby old man. Look closer....see. .......ME! !

Friday, April 27, 2007

People are like...

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within. ~Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Saturday, April 7, 2007

Stones Applaud

Those of you who are or were part of the St. Thomas More Parish family know or know of the Mullin family....Ed and Patricia are the proud parents of Teresa, Susan (Mullin-Boyle), Ted, Elizabeth, and Tim. Sadly Teresa and Susan's time on this earth was cut short by Cystic Fibrosis. Teresa wrote her own story, "The Stones Applaud: How Cystic Fibrosis Shaped My Childhood" ...it has finally been published and is available for purchase. I found it on the Amazon site, but I'm sure it is available at any local bookstore. A neat little story.... the book arrived at the Mullin home the day of Patricia's mom's (Mrs. Mary Terese Dugan) viewing. Can't get a more visible sign than that that from grandmother letting them know she met up with Susan and Teresa! <3


http://www.amazon.com/Stones-Applaud-Cystic-Fibrosis-Childhood/dp/1577363639/ref=pd_bbs_1/002-7473944-7487217?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1175717121&sr=8-1

Monday, April 2, 2007

6 reasons not to mess with children

6 reasons not to mess with children.

(1)
A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales.

The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small.

The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale.

Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human; it was physically impossible.

The little girl said, "When I get to heaven I will ask Jonah".

The teacher asked, "What if Jonah went to hell?"

The little girl replied, "Then you ask him ".

(2)
A Kindergarten teacher was observing her classroom of children while they were drawing. She would occasionally walk around to see each child's work.

As she got to one little girl who was working diligently, she asked what the drawing was.

The girl replied, "I'm drawing God."

The teacher paused and said, "But no one knows what God looks like."

Without missing a beat, or looking up from her drawing, the girl replied, "They will in a minute."

(3)
A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds.

After explaining the commandment to "honor" thy Father and thy Mother, she asked, "Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?"

Without missing a beat one little boy (the oldest of a family) answered, "Thou shall not kill."

(4)
The children had all been photographed, and the teacher was trying to persuade them each to buy a copy of the group picture.

"Just think how nice it will be to look at it when you are all grown up and say, 'There's Jennifer, she's a lawyer,' or 'That's Michael, He's a doctor'

A small voice at the back of the room rang out, "And there's the teacher, she's dead."

(5)
A teacher was giving a lesson on the circulation of the blood. Trying to make the matter clearer, she said, "Now, class, if I stood on my head, the blood, as you know, would run into it, and I would turn red in the face."

"Yes," the class said.

"Then why is it that while I am standing upright in the ordinary position the blood doesn't run into my feet?"

A little fellow shouted,
"Cause your feet ain't empty."

(6)
The children were lined up in the cafeteria of a Catholic elementary school for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray:

"Take only ONE. God is watching."

Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chip cookies.

A child had written a note, "Take all you want. God is watching the apples.