Tuesday, February 14, 2012

The Story of the Cracked Pot...


An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole, which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.

'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.'

The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'

'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them.'

For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.

Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.'

Each of us has our own unique flaw, some more than others.  But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives so very interesting and rewarding.


Saturday, February 11, 2012

Life EXPLAINED


On the first day, God created the dog and said, "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past.  For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years."

The dog said, "That's a long time to be barking.  How about only ten years and I'll give you back the other ten?"

So God saw it was good

On the second day, God created the monkey and said, "Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh.  For this, I'll give you a twenty-year life span."

The monkey said, "Monkey tricks for twenty years?  That's a pretty long time to perform.  How about I give you back ten like the dog did?"

And God , again saw it was good
 
On the third day, God created the cow and said, "You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family.  For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years."

The cow said, "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years.  How about twenty and I'll give back the other forty?"

And God agreed it was good

On the fourth day, God created humans and said, "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life.  For this, I'll give you twenty years."

But the human said, "Only twenty years?  Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?"

"Okay," said God  "You asked for it."  So that is why for our first twenty years, we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves.  For the next forty years, we slave in the sun to support our family..  For the next ten years, we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren.  And for the last ten years, we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.

Life has now been explained to you.

There is no need to thank me for this valuable information.  I'm doing it as a public service.  If you are looking for me I will be on the front porch ;-)

Saturday, January 28, 2012

I believe in Tim Tebow

I've come to believe in Tim Tebow, but not for what he does on a football field, which is still three parts Dr. Jekyll and two parts Mr. Hyde.
No, I've come to believe in Tim Tebow for what he does off a football field, which is represent the best parts of us, the parts I want to be and so rarely am.

Who among us is this selfless?

Every week, Tebow picks out someone who is suffering, or who is dying, or who is injured. He flies these people and their families to the Broncos game, rents them a car, puts them up in a nice hotel, buys them dinner (usually at a Dave & Buster's), gets them and their families pregame passes, visits with them just before kickoff (!), gets them 30-yard-line tickets down low, visits with them after the game (sometimes for an hour), has them walk him to his car, and sends them off with a basket of gifts.

Home or road, win or lose, hero or goat.

Remember last week, when the world was pulling its hair out in the hour after Tebow had stunned the Pittsburgh Steelers with an 80-yard OT touchdown pass to Demaryius Thomas in the playoffs? And Twitter was exploding with 9,420 tweets about Tebow per second? When an ESPN poll was naming him the most popular athlete in 
America?

Tebow was spending that hour talking to 16-year-old Bailey Knaub about her 73 surgeries so far and what TV shows she likes.

"Here he'd just played the game of his life," recalls Bailey's mother, Kathy, of Loveland, Colo., "and the first thing he does after his press conference is come find Bailey and ask, 'Did you get anything to eat?' He acted like what he'd just done wasn't anything, like it was all about Bailey."

More than that, Tebow kept corralling people into the room for Bailey to meet. Hey, Demaryius, come in here a minute. Hey, Mr. Elway. Hey, Coach Fox.

Even though sometimes-fatal Wegener's granulomatosis has left Bailey with only one lung, the attention took her breath away.

"It was the best day of my life," she emailed. "It was a bright star among very gloomy and difficult days. Tim Tebow gave me the greatest gift I could ever imagine. He gave me the strength for the future. I know now that I can face any obstacle placed in front of me. Tim taught me to never give up because at the end of the day, today might seem bleak but it can't rain forever and tomorrow is a new day, with new promises."

I read that email to Tebow, and he was honestly floored.

"Why me? Why should I inspire her?" he said. "I just don't feel, I don't know, adequate. Really, hearing her story inspires me."

It's not just NFL defenses that get Tebowed. It's high school girls who don't know whether they'll ever go to a prom. It's adults who can hardly stand. It's kids who will die soon.

For the game at Buffalo, it was Charlottesville, Va., blue-chip high school QB Jacob Rainey, who lost his leg after a freak tackle in a scrimmage. Tebow threw three interceptions in thatBuffalo game and the Broncos were crushed 40-14.

"He walked in and took a big sigh and said, 'Well, that didn't go as planned,'" Rainey remembers. "Where I'm from, people wonder how sincere and genuine he is. But I think he's the most genuine person I've ever met."

There's not an ounce of artifice or phoniness or Hollywood in this kid Tebow, and I've looked everywhere for it.

Take 9-year-old Zac Taylor, a child who lives in constant pain. Immediately after Tebow shocked the Chicago Bears with a 13-10 comeback win, Tebow spent an hour with Zac and his family. At one point, Zac, who has 10 doctors, asked Tebow whether he has a secret prayer for hospital visits. Tebow whispered it in his ear. And because Tebow still needed to be checked out by the Broncos' team doctor, he took Zac in with him, but only after they had whispered it together.

And it's not always kids. Tom Driscoll, a 55-year-old who is dying of brain cancer at a hospice in Denver, was Tebow's guest for the Cincinnati game. "The doctors took some of my brain," Driscoll says, "so my short-term memory is kind of shot. But that day I'll never forget. Tim is such a good man."

This whole thing makes no football sense, of course. Most NFL players hardly talk to teammates before a game, much less visit with the sick and dying.

Isn't that a huge distraction?

"Just the opposite," Tebow says. "It's by far the best thing I do to get myself ready. Here you are, about to play a game that the world says is the most important thing in the world. Win and they praise you. Lose and they crush you. And here I have a chance to talk to the coolest, most courageous people. It puts it all into perspective. The game doesn't really matter. I mean, I'll give 100 percent of my heart to win it, but in the end, the thing I most want to do is not win championships or make a lot of money, it's to invest in people's lives, to make a difference."

So that's it. I've given up giving up on him. I'm a 100 percent believer. Not in his arm. Not in his skills. I believe in his heart, his there-will-definitely-be-a-pony-under-the-tree optimism, the way his love pours into people, right up to their eyeballs, until they believe they can master the hopeless comeback, too.

Remember the QB who lost his leg, Jacob Rainey? He got his prosthetic leg a few weeks ago, and he wants to play high school football next season. Yes, tackle football. He'd be the first to do that on an above-the-knee amputation.

Hmmm. Wonder where he got that crazy idea?

"Tim told me to keep fighting, no matter what," Rainey says. "I am." 

GOD IS NEVER WRONG




A king who did not believe in the goodness of God, had a slave who, in all circumstances, said:  My king, do not be discouraged, because everything God does is perfect, no mistakes!  

One day they went hunting and along the way a wild animal attacked the king.  His slave managed to kill the animal, but could not prevent his majesty losing a finger.

Furious and without showing his gratitude for being saved, the nobleman said "Is God good?  If He was good, I would not have been attacked and lose my finger."

The slave replied:
"My king, despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good, and He knows the "why" of all these things.  What God does is perfect.  He is never wrong!"

Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his slave.

Later, he left for another hunting trip and was captured by savages who made human sacrifices.  On the altar, ready to sacrifice the nobleman, the savages found that the victim had not one of his fingers, so he was released.   According to them, he was not so complete to be offered to the gods.


Upon his return to the palace, he authorized the release of his slave whom he received very affectionately.


"My dear friend, God was really good to me!  I was almost killed by the wild men, but for the lack of a single finger, I was let go!  But I have a question: if God is so good, why did He allow me to put you in jail?"

"My King, if I had gone with you in this hunt, I would have been sacrificed for you, because I have no missing finger, therefore, remember everything God does is perfect. He is never wrong."

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Ask God to inspire your thoughts, guide your actions, and ease your feelings.  And do not be afraid.  God is never wrong!

You know why this message is for you?  I do not know, but God knows, because He never makes mistakes.......

The path of God and his word is perfect, without impurities.  He is the way of all those who trust in Him, as proclaimed in 2 Samuel 22: 31

What you do with this message is up to you.  May God put in your heart the desire to share this link with someone.  God knows why He chose you to receive this message.  Please bless someone with it.  We are all God's children.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Why Go to Church?


A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday. "I've gone for 30 years now," he wrote, "and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the pastors are wasting theirs by giving sermons at all."

This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column, much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher:

"I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals. But I do know this.. They all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!"

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

A prayer for a cure for Cancer




Cancer is a strange cell.  You can go along for years in remission and then one day it pops its head up again.

If you ever have it you will never be free of it.  Pray for the day there will be a permanent cure.

Dear God,
I pray that You will guide someone to find a cure for cancer in 2012 .  In Jesus Name, Amen

A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle.
Please Keep This Candle Going

BiPolar Disorder...Donna S needs a prayer


A business associate and friend of mine from years ago has been "Baker" acted; into a mental institution in Florida.  Donna S apparently is suffering from a BiPolar disorder.  Friends and family are coming to her aid...but she needs our prayers...

Monday, January 16, 2012

Hodgkin's Lymphoma...Megan's battle...


Rick – I would appreciate if you could forward this prayer request for my friend Derick’s wife Megan who is 37.  They are a wonderful people that have a young son and daughter.

Megan had gone to the doctor after finding a lump in her throat.  The doctors thought she might have thyroid cancer and performed tests to determine she had a clean bill of health.  Knowing something was wrong she insisted that they continue looking into the lump.  Further tests determined that she in fact has Hodgkin’s lymphoma.  She has 9 chemo treatments left in her current plan.   

Heavenly Father, I call on You right now in a special way.  It is through your power that Megan was created.  Every breath she takes, every morning she wakes, and every moment of every hour, she lives under your power.

Father, I ask You now to touch Megan with that same power.  For if You created her from nothing, You can certainly recreate her.  Fill Megan with the healing power of Your Spirit.  Cast out anything that should not be in her.  Mend what is broken.  Root out any unproductive cells.  Open any blocked arteries or veins and rebuild any damaged areas.  Remove all inflammation and cleanse any infection. 

Let the warmth of Your healing love pass through Megan's body to make new any unhealthy areas so that her body will function the way You created it to function.

And Father, restore Megan to full health in mind and body so that she may serve You the rest of her life.

I ask this through Christ our Lord.  Amen. 


Sue Signaigo, PMP
Project Manager


Hodgkin's lymphoma, previously known as Hodgkin's disease, is a type of lymphoma, which is a cancer originating from white blood cells called lymphocytes. It was named afterThomas Hodgkin, who first described abnormalities in the lymph system in 1832.[1][2] Hodgkin's lymphoma is characterized by the orderly spread of disease from one lymph nodegroup to another and by the development of systemic symptoms with advanced disease. When Hodgkins cells are examined microscopically, multinucleated Reed-Sternberg cells(RS cells) are the characteristic histopathologic finding. Hodgkin's lymphoma may be treated with radiation therapychemotherapy, or hematopoietic stem cell transplantation, with the choice of treatment depending on the age and sex of the patient and the stage, bulk, and histological subtype of the disease. The disease occurrence shows two peaks: the first in young adulthood (age 15–35) and the second in those over 55 years old.[3]
The overall 5-year relative survival for 2001-2007 from 17 SEER geographic areas was 83.9%[4]. Since many patients are young, they often live 40 years or more after treatment. However, few studies follow patients as long as 25 years, and those studies are of older treatments with more life-threatening adverse effects. There is insufficient data available about the long-term outcomes of newer, less toxic regimens and ones which limit radiation exposure. Radiation treatments, and some chemotherapy drugs, pose a risk of causing potentially fatal secondary cancers, heart disease, and lung disease 40 or more years later. Modern treatments greatly minimize the chances of these late effects.[5]

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Sometimes Abortion is NOT the Answer...a great story



In a recent email, I read about a woman named Pam, who knows the pain of considering abortion. More than 24 years ago, she and her husband Bob were serving as missionaries to the Philippines and praying for a fifth child. Pam contracted amoebic dysentery, an infection of the intestine caused by a parasite found in contaminated food or drink. She went into a coma and was treated with strong antibiotics before they discovered she was pregnant.

Doctors urged her to abort the baby for her own safety and told her that the medicines had caused irreversible damage to her baby. She refused the abortion and cited her Christian faith as the reason for her hope that her son would be born without the devastating disabilities physicians predicted. Pam said the doctors didn't think of it as a life, they thought of it as a mass of fetal tissue.

While pregnant, Pam nearly lost their baby four times but refused to consider abortion. She recalled making a pledge to God with her husband: If you will give us a son, we’ll name him Timothy and we’ll make him a preacher.

Pam ultimately spent the last two months of her pregnancy in bed and eventually gave birth to a healthy baby boy August 14, 1987. Pam’s youngest son is indeed a preacher. He preaches in prisons, makes hospital visits, and serves with his father’s ministry in the Philippines. He also plays football. Pam’s son is Tim Tebow.



The University of Florida’s star quarterback became the first sophomore in history to win college football’s highest award, the Heisman Trophy. His current role as quarterback of the Denver Broncos has provided an incredible platform for Christian witness. As a result, he is being called The Mile-High Messiah.

Tim’s notoriety and the family’s inspiring story have given Pam numerous opportunities to speak on behalf of women’s centers across the country. Pam Tebow believes that every little baby you save matters. I pray her tribe will increase!

May the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you always!

Friday, January 13, 2012

Paul Walker Update JAN 2012

January 9, 2012 UPDATE.  Taken to the mat...a few times.  But Paul gets back up.

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Dear Richard,
A new journal entry for Paul's CaringBridge website was posted at 5:04 PM, CST on January 9, 2012.
Don't forget to sign the guestbook!




January 7, 2012 UPDATE...Paul fighting it ...but it is putting a hurting on him.

Paul had a very rough day yesterday.  He was was very confused, unsteady on his feet, extremely tired.  They had cut down on the dose of his anti nausea medicine yesterday, but it continued to affect him very adversely.  He was unable to do much of anything.  They put an alarm on his bed last night so that he wouldn't try to get up on his own.  They discontinued that medicine today, but he vomited shortly after.  So, they have started him on something else.  He is much, much better today.  It was pretty frightening yesterday, because he was worse on the day of transplant than he was the entire time with the first transplant....and he will still continue to go down and stay down for almost two weeks.  
Just wanted to let you know that our phones are now working at the hospital. 
Thanks,
Linda


January 4, 2012...UPDATE...The battle wages on...

Please sign Paul's GUEST BOOK.

He could use the BOOST that your minute of care will provide.  Throw in an inspirational quote if you have one handy.  Thanks...  Bock



May 2011 UPDATE:  Paul is going back to the Mayo Clinic this week; combination SCHEDULED visit and something "new" needing attention.  Please...say a quick prayer for Paul and his family.  That gift of prayer will pay you dividends when you are in need.  Thanks...RGB

Paul and Linda and the grandkids...
Paul is WINNING the CANCER fight.
Thanks for your prayers.

Caring Bridge is really cool...

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/paulwalker2

Check it out...FREE, Informative...and CARING for sure.

Congrats on winning the battles Paul.

To all who's Faith and Hope are Challenged...


Be Not Afraid (I Go Before You Always)

You shall cross the barren desert, but you shall not die of thirst.
You shall wander far in safety though you do not know the way.
You shall speak your words in foreign lands and all will understand.
You shall see the face of God and live.

Be not afraid.
I go before you always;
Come follow Me,
and I will give you rest.

If you pass through raging waters in the sea, you shall not drown.
If you walk amid the burning flames, you shall not be harmed.
If you stand before the pow'r of hell and death is at your side,
know that I am with you through it all.

Be not afraid.
I go before you always;
Come follow Me,
and I will give you rest.

Blessed are your poor, for the kingdom shall be theirs.
Blest are you that weep and mourn, for one day you shall laugh.
And if wicked men insult and hate you all because of Me,
blessed, blessed are you!

Be not afraid.
I go before you always;
Come follow Me,
and I will give you rest.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Please Pray For Charlie Fuchs



Not so long ago (August 2011) my uncle, Charlie Fuchs.  


Today, he needs our prayer as he has been hospitalized with pneumonia and, while fighting this, has had some complications with his heart.


He is a strong man, a patriot that served our country.  Please give a little back by taking a minute in prayer to lift Charles in God's strength.  Thanks.  RGB

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Let's be like Bryan Anderson


One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help.  So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out.  His old Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.  Even with the smile on his face, she was worried.  No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so.  Was he going to hurt her?  He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the rain and the cold.  He knew how she felt.  It was those chills which only fear can put in you.

He said, 'I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's dry and warm?  By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.'

Well, all she had was a flat tire.  So Bryan went about fixing the flat, and crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles in the darkness and getting wet from the rainy pavement.  Soon he was able to change the tire.  But he had to get dirty and his hands were hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him.  She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through on her way home for the holiday.  She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk.  The lady asked how much she owed him.  (Any amount would have been all right with her.  She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped.)  

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan Anderson added, 'And think of me.'

Bryan waited until she started her car and drove off.  It had been a troubling few months, but he felt good as he headed for home.


Bryan never thought twice about being paid.  This was not a job to him.  This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past.  He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way…even though, being out of a job….he surely could have used the money.


A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe.  She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home.  It was a dingy looking restaurant.  Outside were two old gas pumps.  The whole scene was unfamiliar to her.  The waitress came over and brought a clean, dry towel to wipe her wet hair.  The waitress had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase.  The lady noticed the waitress was pregnant, still the waitress never let the strain and aches change her attitude.  The lady from St. Louis wondered how the waitress could be so observing and helpful by giving her a clean towel for her wet hair.  Then she remembered Bryan ...…

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill.  The waitress quickly went to get change.  By the time the waitress returned, the patron was gone.  The waitress wondered where the lady could be.  Then she noticed something written on the napkin at her table...

There were tears in her eyes as she read what the lady wrote: 'You don't owe me any change.  I can see you work hard for your baby.  Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you.  If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you, keep giving to others as you did by attending to me.'

Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through this day.  Late that night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written.  How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it?  With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard….

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, 'Everything's going to be all right.  I love you, Bryan Anderson.'




There is an old saying, 'What goes around comes around.'  Sometimes your good acts are not answered in a day…still...God works in mysterious ways as He puts people in our lives for a reason.

Wouldn't a great resolution be…"Be like Bryan Anderson…every day."

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

That Lois Dillard-Kinman sees, let her hear your voice of prayer...



January 9, 2012 UPDATE:



A few weeks back I requested prayer for my mother, Lois Dillard-Kinman. We the prayers are working perfectly!

She has the test results back and the good news is there was no stroke or brain tumors.  However, there is a small tumor in her neck. The doctor says it is slow growing, but must be removed. It is most likely cancer and she is going to see a specialist here in St Louis within the next few weeks. More good news is that there are no swollen glands or lipoids around the area which might mean it is contained and has not spread yet.

I will keep you up to date.

Richard W Dillard

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A few weeks Back...below....
Rick:

Last month my mother noticed that one of her pupils were larger than the other. She called her doctor and he ran a brain scan for an brain aneurysm. The test came back negative. But he recommended she see a specialist because she may have had a small stroke.

I spoke with my mother this morning and the specialist is going to be running some tests but thinks it may be one of 2 things. Either a small stroke or cancer!

She does not have a date yet, but they are going to do a CAT scan first to check for a stroke. Then we will go from there.

A little about my mom, Lois Dillard-Kinman. She is a wonderful Christian woman that has served our Lord well through her 72 years. About 28 years ago my dad died in an automobile accident and she re-married about 22 years ago or so to a Christian man. I call her an angel on earth because of the way she is. She lives by the scriptures and has raised us boys that way. Did you know that I have never heard my mother say a bad word about another person? Cool huh? However, she will point out if the path is not leading to the Lord. She spends her life trying to lead people to the Lord.

She raised us that we are only Christian (no denomination), but that we are not the only Christians. Are family has some wonderful Catholic, Mormon, Lutheran and Baptist friends which we love dearly, as I do you and your family. Over the last few years of getting to know you by visiting, through your emails and prayer group, I have come to love you as my Christian brother.

Anyway, I digress, lol

She knows the scripture backwards and forewords. She is one of those people you can ask “what does the Bible say about________? “ And she will give you several places that reference your question. Also, she will tell you that Jesus of Nazareth is the Messiah, the Son of the Living God, God in human form;  
that the virgin-born Son of God died for our sins, was buried, rose from the dead and is coming again. She will say He is both fully God and fully man.
Philippians 2:5-7
John 14:9
John 8:58
John 1:1, 14
Colossians 2:9
She will tell you the Bible is the inspired Word of God, the written record of His supernatural revelation of Himself to man, absolute in its authority, complete in its revelation, final in its content and without any error in its teaching.
2 Timothy 3:16-17
2 Peter 1:20-21

If want more background, just let me know. If you want me to keep you informed of her journey, I would consider it an honor.

Can you please add her to the prayer group prayers?

With Christian love,


Richard W Dillard